As I do occasionally, I’ve been on a self-mandated Facebook break for about a month. And while I’ve posted a total of maybe seven pictures during that time, that’s all I’ve really done.
Quite frankly, if I didn’t have my account linked to so many external apps or services, I would just close the damn thing and not look back. But since that’s not the case I’m doing the next best thing for my purpose which is simply avoiding it. The app is hidden in a folder on my phone’s Home page (still installed for the aforementioned external services) so that I don’t see or use it.
What prompted this move was the most recent school shooting in Parkland, Florida. It was simply awful and being a parent, I can’t even imagine having to deal with something so incredibly tragic yet seemingly avoidable. And of course, after any event like this, the arguments and conspiracy theories begin and they were out in full force on Facebook.
But this one seemed to really have people divided more than ever.
In the end, I deleted and blocked two people, one of whom is a real gun nut and tried to justify owning a cache of killing machines because it’s in the Constitution. Sorry, *poof* you’re gone. Another was an on-again, off-again friend who thought arming teachers was the solution. We’re now permanently in “off-again” status and I really don’t care to speak to them ever again (we’ve grown apart over the years). I’m a little shocked I only deleted two people after all this.
Then there’s the daily clusterfuck of a soap opera called The Trump Presidency that is saturated in lies and eaten up by his minions. And even though I follow some of his so-called “fake news” outlets, my Feed became a Trump ticker-tape parade and I don’t need to give that idiot any more of my time. I try to avoid the news these days but still visit websites or watch broadcasts at my leisure and not Facebook’s timeline.
But mark my words: Trump will burn out real soon and it’s going to be the most spectacular meltdown in the history of humankind. It’s been my theory that he wanted the power and position of President, but not the responsibility. And so far I seem to be right with that assessment.
There’s other random things that drove me away from Facebook, not to mention their recent privacy issues. Not to get into details but uh, yeah. Not everything needs to be posted on social media, whether it’s your lunch or checking in at the doctor’s office for your [insert procedure/examination of your choice]. Oh, don’t look surprised. People really do post this stuff and I’m not sure why. I have done it in the past but I’ve grown older and wiser.
So I’m content to keep this streak alive. But you may be wondering what I’ve been doing in lieu of wasting time on Facebook.
First, I’ve been a little more active posting photos on Instagram. Photography is one of my passions and I’d rather dedicate my time to sharing my vision – dare I say, talent – with the world (or at least my sub-500 followers) than read about someone’s dinner. In fact, I was recently contacted by Apple (yes, that Apple!) about the possibility of them using one of my shots for their Instagram account (see comments).
I’ve submitted my shot and waiting to hear back. Either way, praise from Caesar is praise, indeed.
Second, I’ve been doing some thinking about my weight lately and decided to once again take charge of it and set a lofty goal for myself by my 50th birthday next February. If you recall, my weight loss blog is called 200by40, implying that I’d reach my goal of 200 pounds by my 40th birthday in 2009 which I did. With 50 around the corner, I’m sure you can use your imagination and figure out the goal I’ve set for myself. Either way, there will be no Facebook posts about it except maybe when I reach my goal. Maybe.
And I’m not saying it’s serious but I’ve given up having cereal for breakfast and replaced it with an egg and almond milk. No more Lucky Charms; I’m eating like a real adult in the morning!
To that end, I’ve been sleeping more because old people need their sleep. Actually, it’s known to help with weight loss.
And with the free time Facebook has given me, I suppose I should blog more as well. I’ll try to be better at that.
Anyway, that’s my story. Hope everybody stuck in Zuckerbergland is doing well.
2 thoughts on “Break Time”
Facebook vexes me, mostly because it doesn’t give me the ability to hide most pages/sites anymore, just snooze my friend for 30 days. I have people whom I genuinely like, but they post politics all. The. Time. And I agree with them, but man….I just want to see kids and pets and food and vacation pics and not Trump’s face all day. I think the solution is snoozing myself.
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I agree. I’ve got friends who are genuinely good people but whose posts are, political or otherwise, beyond aggravating (or just so random, stupid or unrelatable). Sure, I can not follow them but if I’m going that route, I might as well delete them — something I’d rather not do if we have a connection beyond social media. And as I said in the post, everything Annoying Orange does makes headlines and I don’t need more reminders of how hysterically the world is laughing at us now. The whole thing is tiring and those few times I’ve poked my head in for a look just showed me how little things have changed and how little I miss the drama. I don’t miss it in the least — it’s easier for me to walk away. Thankfully, saved events are carried over to the Local app so I still get reminders for them.
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