Life, Interrupted

Ah, blogging. I remember it well. Hopefully, I can get back on track here and return to my old self after the month I’ve had.

Where do I begin? Let’s start here.

Due to an unfortunate set of circumstances, my mom was living with us here in our home from late December up until about a week ago and as a result, our lives were pretty much put on hold during that time. We just couldn’t live the way we normally do and, although it was my own mom, it was as if there was an outsider looking at us with each and every little thing we did. Blogging definitely took a hit as well since I felt my creativity was not where it should have been.

The problems, however, didn’t end there and before we knew it, Ann and I were verbally taking shots at each other. We had never done that in all of our years of marriage—17 this June—and we knew exactly why we were now. And then, about a week ago, Mom told us she made arrangements to live with a friend of hers.

Before she left, she told me that I hated her, and that I was “mean” and “evil.”

Okay, those who read my blog probably wouldn’t doubt the mean and evil aspects of my persona but all kidding aside, I didn’t give those comments much credence. All any of us did—myself and my cousins—was try and help Mom and in the end, we were all turned down. As a result, it’s sort of hard not to get “mean” or “evil” when you’re unemployed, you’re feeding an extra person who practically had to be begged to help contribute to the food and rising utility costs, did nothing to help herself find a place to live even though you found a place for $312 a month, and you’re having panic attacks because of all this.

All of these things did a number on our family dynamic which will take some time to repair. I haven’t heard from Mom or my brother since then and I’m not quite sure if I will. It’s up to them if they wish to get in touch with me.

Ah, what else? Oh, I know. Remember that fantastic Dell computer I was so patiently waiting for? Can you guess what I’m going to say next?

Yeah, you’re right: it took a dump after less than a month of use. Not that I’m all that surprised about such a thing because my father-in-law’s old Dell was also an unreliable piece of shit that was slow out of the box. So just the other day I went ahead and did a fresh install of Windows 7 and as of this post *knock on wood* it’s running smoothly. Fortunately, I had everything already backed up on the external drive so I didn’t lose a thing, but I had to re-install my most oft-used programs which aren’t much, but still a pain.

In the evenings I’ve been spending a lot of time on Forza Motorsport 3 (see current header), either playing or creating graphics for my cars (or to sell for virtual dollars), just to keep my sanity in place during that crazy month. It turns out that if you spend more time creating vinyl groups than playing the damn game, you can get pretty good at it. To see a gallery of my stuff, it’s up over at Flickr. No, it’s probably not the most elaborate stuff you’ll see but considering it was all made from scratch and with an Xbox controller, this failed Advertising Design major is damn proud of it.

And speaking of geeky things, now that I have webcam, I signed up for Skype. Because all of those long distance calls I make were starting to add up. Yeah…

Is there more? Why yes, there is. I am also coaching/managing a t-ball team this Spring with my own son on said team. I’ve been in constant contact with my Team Parents, making Excel charts for lineups, etc. so I’ve been busy there. Our first practice was cancelled due to our recent unusually wet weather and our next one on Wednesday is also in jeopardy for the same reason. So our first game is on February 27th and I’ve yet to meet my team or have a practice with them. Not good, so I just hope it clears up real soon.

If there is an upside to any of this bad weather—and I’m sure my friend Preston would beg to differ—is that it dumps tons of fluffy white stuff in our local mountains. So we headed up there one weekend just to get out of the house, and we had a good time:


You can see a Flip Video of me sledding on Flickr (because embedding it here isn’t quite working).

Evergreen Cafe in Wrightwood We ate at the Evergreen Cafe (see left) and I gotta tell you, the food and service were absolutely incredible. In fact, I had to ask the waitress if the bill was right once we decided to leave.

The cost for all three of us was less than $23. This is when you know you’re not in the big city anymore. That, and the friendly service, the homemade bread used for toast, the owner going to each and every table to see if everything was okay.

That’s what it’s all about, and that’s why we need a Wrightwood escape every now and then. It was just an incredible day all the way around. Not to mention that I found a several 45s for 50 cents each in one of the local shops: “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey, “I Melt With You” by Modern English and The Jacksons 5’s “I’ll Be There”.

Okay, so I’ve caught up on everything, I think. Hope it wasn’t too boring or whatnot. And hey, since we got our taxes done and have a little cash to spend, I’ll be out all this weekend beginning late Friday and through late Monday so I’ll try to get at least another post in. We’re taking Anthony to LEGOLAND* and the SeaLife Aquarium for an early birthday present…even though someone else’s birthday is actually on Sunday…*cough*cough*…

* LEGOLAND and LEGO are actually copyrighted as ALL CAPS. Check it out—they’ll never (officially) be lowercase in print or Web. The things you learn when you write for a magazine…

9 thoughts on “Life, Interrupted

  1. I could be hardly bored with your posts! You know I’m not a native English speaker and your posts are always interesting and very easy to read 😉 I really like your blog.

    Have a great time on the trip and Happy Birthday in advance!


    1. Well, thanks for the kind words and the early birthday wishes. And believe me, if I could read your blog, I’d do it in a heartbeat! If I may ask, which language is that? Maybe I can run it through Google Translate and read it 🙂

      Thanks again!


  2. Argh! Have you seen the news? Do you know how much snow is being dumped on us? The only good thing is my work was closed today. The bad thing is that I’ve already been out to shovel 3 times and I feel like I am about to fall over dead.

    As far as your mom goes, I would end up killing myself if I had to live with my mom, God love her. I’m just sorry that it felt like you had a stranger in your house. My friend, Linda, is now living with me. She moved in two weeks ago since I have room for her because the kids moved out and bought a house in November. She’s been out of work for a whole year and she’s simply run out of money.


    1. Yeah..sorry about the snow… 🙂

      There was much more to Mom living with us. That’s just all I’m willing to divulge. The whole situation was just a bit awkward for my family and we did what we had to do. Unfortunately, you see the results.


  3. I’m reading this on a kick-ass Dell right now, so I’m getting a kick out of…

    Oh, nevermind.

    Shit man. Hang in there. Sounds like a shitty month.

    My younger son started T-ball this year. Watching his coach with his “team” I have to give the guy credit. Handling a bunch of three- to five-year-olds with the attention spans of a Tic-Tac can’t be easy.


    1. Well, the Dell’s still working fine as of this keystroke. Let’s hope it stays that way.

      It was definitely a month.

      I was playing catch with Anthony yesterday and he couldn’t catch a cold. Then I thought to myself, “This x 12.” Someone told me it was like herding cats so yeah, it should be fun. There’s no score, standings, outs, etc. so they will just be learning basic elements of the game, so that’s cool. I’l looking forward to it.


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